Fanta want to say something...

Today i want to be a part time Dr. Love. Motif? Based on my experiences la sikit2 ok!

My dear readers, How do you know if you are in LOVE? Very common question but very rare to get a perfect answer! I mean so far I have not heard a very satisfying answer. The definition of LOVE itself to me is so complicated yet to everyone. Well, very much agree eveyone can define it in their own words based on their feeling, experiences or external info. Whatever...

When I met someone.. and started to care for that someone... what i mean by care here is: been texting each other upon daily basis, always find times to hang out/meet them, slowly digging their background profile, well basically process of getting to know that person really well and when I'm away I started to feel unease, developing the feeling of missing that person. (Well you don't do/feel these to other person that you consider as friend right?) So, turn out to be a someone you are crazy about and and wondering what has been going on here. Then i started to ask myself. Is it LOVE, LUST, INFATUATION or just plain LIKE? What a subjective feeling has occurred?

Here are some things I asked myself:
- How do I feel when I am with this person?
- How do I feel when I am not with this person?
- Does this person make me feel special and happy?
- Can I be myself around this person?
- What are the qualities this person has that make me feel so strongly?
- Do I think my feelings are reciprocated?

Well, being in love can be a wonderful feeling! But keep in mind that after the initial passionate feelings calm down, you will be left with a real person and real issues to deal with. A lot of people feel that a deeper love develops over time. Then when THAT is the time, weakness slowly reveals and because of the 'love' development process (taken the person you in love with, you have accepted her the way she is) The weakness can be handled wisely. Nobody is perfect ok! Thats why they called it 'Significant Other' or 'The Other Half'...

Hurm.. this is just a piece of mind from Fanta's perspective apart from getting info from the net abit and Fanta is in progress of looking forward to find her True Love. No! She wants her True Love to find her while she is sitting at the cafe enjoying every sips of her Teh Tarik. My goodness... it has to be 2-ways communication la weiii....

What say you?